whatchamacallit??

my friends and i had a conversation the other day..the usual "wala lang" usapan and we came across a very interesting subject..Fate or destiny-- whatever you call it..since most of them right now are single, we talked about how will you know if youve found the right one..a girl friend of mine said look for signs--stressing that some girls do that..one said, that it will take some time to really know it..another one said that its just pure magic.. a "spark" that will come out of nowhere, that it just happens.. which lead our little conversation to what happens in our lives in general (malabo talaga pag nagusap tong mga to =) ano ba ang buhay natin..ang lahat ba na nangyayari sa buhay natin eh planado ba?-- kumbaga nakatadhana? nakasulat sa ating mga palad,sa mga bituin o kung saan man? o di kaya tayo mismo ang gumagawa ng ating kapalaran sa pamamagitan ng ating mga desisyon at aksyon..or is it that some things are just purely coincidental--that some things happen maybe just by luck or chance? or is it a mixture of all of these elements...

what do you think?? =D